Being curious about a new practice is a great thing, but it is important to be well informed and to follow some simple tips before starting something unknown to you. If you are already decided, our tips will help you to get started safely in a BDSM session. GET INFORMATION AND LEARN To get started in a BDSM session we recommend that you inform yourself very well before taking the step. Look for true stories, anecdotes, stories ... Surely you can learn a lot from other people who have already gone through that experience. COMMUNICATION IS VITAL Talk about what you are going to do and how far. Communication is very important, especially if you do not yet know your partner deeply. Remember that we are entering a game of domination where everything must be agreed by both parties. Make your limits and the use of the safety word very clear, if necessary. EQUIPMENT IS KEY
Depending on the discipline you want to tackle, you will need a series of accessories that help you get into the role and be able to follow the role you have chosen. START LITTLE BY LITTLE It is very important for the submissive to get used to the pain of a BDSM session, but also for the master to familiarize himself with his reactions to know what he is feeling and if he can continue. Increase the intensity little by little, there is always time to go further. Take special care with spanking. Neither too strong nor too lazy ... surely you find a middle ground from which to start. As for the ties, we recommend that you do not make too complex knots that you cannot untie later, or that you make very strong knots in areas that can cut off circulation. ALWAYS HAVE AN EMERGENCY SOLUTION It is not what you want, but sometimes something can go wrong. It would be interesting to have some utensils on hand that can get you out of trouble at the right time. Some scissors for that knot that does not want to loosen, or a small medicine cabinet with alcohol, bandages, arnica, etc. in order to calm the marks of an intense session ... It never hurts to be prepared. And don't forget, all BDSM practices must comply with the SSC maximum of Sensible, Safe and Consensual. BDSM session is as valid a way to get pleasure as any other so remember, the limits are set by yourself! BDSM session can be a very pleasant practice but it also requires a great mental balance. If you are curious, go ahead! Open your mind, talk to your partner, learn and experiment together until you reach a discipline in which you feel comfortable within your own limits.
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