MYTHS AND TRUTHS ABOUT THE PRACTICE OF BDSM SESSION
As a result of the rise of erotic novels dealing with the subject, BDSM session has become more recognized on a social level and has aroused the curiosity of almost everyone. But despite this boom, there are still erroneous beliefs and reservations about these practices and everyone who does them.
Erotic novels about BDSM have sparked curiosity about these practices in many people. There has been a false belief that BDSM session brought pain and sadism together until its practice was distorted, treating this discipline as a sexual deviation bordering on physical abuse. Nothing is further from reality, the BDSM implies the mutual consent of all the parties involved that delimit themselves through agreed contracts and security words to stop the session if necessary. The limits are marked before you even start.
If there are no information bases on what BDSM is, it may be common for the following erroneous beliefs to be shared:
Is it a practice for wicked people? -> NO
We have found some definitions that speak of sexual perversion, humiliation and pain, but they have nothing to do with what actually happens. We assure you that people who practice BDSM do not suffer any type of trauma, much less a mental illness.
Is it an abusive practice? -> NO
Everything that will take place during the session is agreed in advance to avoid awkward situations. A security code is established, which is usually a word, thus guaranteeing that nobody will do anything they don't want to.
Each skin is different and pain tolerance is also, just as not all practices within BDSM are the same. Being submissive does not imply masochism, for example. Pleasure in relinquishing control and following orders is not the same as pleasure in pain.
Is it a practice that is extrapolated to all facets of life? -> NO
The practice of any discipline of BDSM, generally, is carried out during a fixed period of time that is known as a session. No domination / submission will be exercised in other facets unless it has been pre-established in a timely manner and as part of the game.
We all have a dominant / submissive inside us …
WHAT DO YOU NEED TO GET STARTED IN BDSM?
The practice of BDSM session, in addition to a lot of responsibility, requires high doses of other qualities. Do you want to know what else you need?
There are plenty of accessories that can help you get into the world of BDSM. You can try and choose what you like the most.
1. IMAGINATION
Remember that in a BDSM session you will assume your role throughout the game. It is also possible, especially in lighter or introductory BDSM practices, that roles are switched even within the same experience. You will need high doses of imagination and creativity to be able to transform and maintain your role during the session.
2. OPEN MIND
BDSM will be new to you, so keep an open mind for experimentation. Make room for new experiences and remember that we are here to have a good time.
3. TRUST
It is very important that there is full trust on both sides. Confidence in the other will make you let go during the game, and the final experience will be much more pleasant if you only focus on pleasure.
4. WIN
Let there be no lack of desire! BDSM session is also a matter of attitude. The desire to try, to enter the game ... everything adds points when it comes to making the experience more pleasant.
5. EQUIP YOURSELF WELL!
If you are thinking about getting started, there are plenty of accessories and toys that will help you build your role at any time within any of the BDSM disciplines.
Grips and Bindings: If you are thinking about the Bondage, you will need all kinds of items to be able to keep the other party tied during the session. There are a lot of everyday objects that are easy to find at home and that can surely help you: a tie, some string, a piece of cloth that feels nice ...
Fetish products: masks, leather and vinyl, different suction devices ... A little pain always controlled to get pleasure.
Floggers and whips: floggers, whips, whips ... very exciting articles to punish
BDSM session and Bondage Kits: Kits are the great allies for those who want to get started in BDSM and bondage in a light way.
Other products: In case you want to level up or experience other kinds of sensations, there are a more advanced type of accessories such as sex swings , electrostimulation machines or clothing specially designed for the practice of Bondage.