Being curious about a new practice is a great thing, but it is important to be well informed and to follow some simple tips before starting something unknown to you. If you are already decided, our tips will help you to get started safely in a BDSM session. GET INFORMATION AND LEARN To get started in a BDSM session we recommend that you inform yourself very well before taking the step. Look for true stories, anecdotes, stories ... Surely you can learn a lot from other people who have already gone through that experience. COMMUNICATION IS VITAL Talk about what you are going to do and how far. Communication is very important, especially if you do not yet know your partner deeply. Remember that we are entering a game of domination where everything must be agreed by both parties. Make your limits and the use of the safety word very clear, if necessary. EQUIPMENT IS KEY
Depending on the discipline you want to tackle, you will need a series of accessories that help you get into the role and be able to follow the role you have chosen. START LITTLE BY LITTLE It is very important for the submissive to get used to the pain of a BDSM session, but also for the master to familiarize himself with his reactions to know what he is feeling and if he can continue. Increase the intensity little by little, there is always time to go further. Take special care with spanking. Neither too strong nor too lazy ... surely you find a middle ground from which to start. As for the ties, we recommend that you do not make too complex knots that you cannot untie later, or that you make very strong knots in areas that can cut off circulation. ALWAYS HAVE AN EMERGENCY SOLUTION It is not what you want, but sometimes something can go wrong. It would be interesting to have some utensils on hand that can get you out of trouble at the right time. Some scissors for that knot that does not want to loosen, or a small medicine cabinet with alcohol, bandages, arnica, etc. in order to calm the marks of an intense session ... It never hurts to be prepared. And don't forget, all BDSM practices must comply with the SSC maximum of Sensible, Safe and Consensual. BDSM session is as valid a way to get pleasure as any other so remember, the limits are set by yourself! BDSM session can be a very pleasant practice but it also requires a great mental balance. If you are curious, go ahead! Open your mind, talk to your partner, learn and experiment together until you reach a discipline in which you feel comfortable within your own limits.
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Have you got here and are you looking forward to getting started in any of the BDSM session disciplines? Perfect! To start, we will tell you that within BDSM itself there are different levels. Whichever discipline you choose, you can start with something softer and not level up if you don't really feel comfortable and ready. Remember that there is nothing established, the limits are set by you. Not everything has to like the first time, perhaps you have chosen a role that is not the most appropriate? No problem, you can keep trying until you find what really excites you, don't forget that the ultimate goal of a BDSM session is still getting pleasure. If you want to start in this world, our advice is to do it through the Bondage. Surely without knowing it, you have already introduced it in your sexual games, and that is the word Bondage is used to define all the practices that have to do with immobilization (whether through ropes, chains, handcuffs ... or other elements). Bondage is the most common way of getting started little by little in the practice of BDSM. BUT WHAT IS BONDAGE EXACTLY? Bondage is considered an aesthetic-erotic practice. You can only tie a part (the hands, the feet ...) or make ties that surround the body in its entirety. Ropes, chains, tapes, different types of fabrics, handcuffs ... every element that can immobilize will be welcome. Bondage is the most widespread discipline of BDSM, and the one that is most often practiced independently of the others. Domination and control come into play in the BDSM session during sexual play. The submissive part is delivered to the dominant role that is who will decide how and when all the action occurs. Think about it: as a submissive you will not be able to move while you are at the mercy of what the other person wants to do with you ... isn't it stimulating? It is the excitement of surprise mixed with the uncertainty of not knowing what will happen next. A perfect mix of emotions that will also reinforce the confidence of each other. Within the practice of this discipline, you can also use jaws or exclusive elements that do not allow seeing or hearing, such as a blindfold. If you add to the initial excitement that you cannot see what is happening around you, the surprise factor will be even greater, and both the sensations and the pleasure will multiply. If you want ideas on how to make different types of knots, we leave you the link to the post that we publish with information and videos on the topic of "5 Bondage knots for beginners" TIPS TO GET STARTED IN THE BONDAGE As we have already told you, the best way to get started in BDSM session is through Bondage, but before getting into it, it is important that you take into account some tips if it is something new for you. Enjoy the practice of Bondage safely. Practice it with someone you trust. You can really do it with whoever you want, but think that it will be safer if you practice it with someone you trust so that you feel comfortable in that type of situation and you can enjoy the experience. Choose what your role will be. You can be the person tied or the person to be tied. Agree with your partner before starting what your role will be. Agree first what you want to do. Communication is vital in this type of practice. Agree beforehand how far you are willing to go, what you want to do and what you don't. Start with simple knots. If it is the first time you practice it, it may be overwhelming if you have not tried it. Start with looser and simple knots, to know that you can free yourself if you need it at any time. A good start is knots on the hands or feet. Try new postures. Start by trying simpler postures to enjoy the Bondage. Bondage yes, but always for sure. Any BDSM practice must be done in a completely safe, sensible and consensual (SSC) way. Remember that the limit is always up to you. DEFINE THE RULES AND ENJOY We must be very clear that BDSM is a discipline that seeks the pleasure of both parties, both the submissive part and the part that acts as master. In this game the use of pain has a pleasant purpose. Things that a submisx may not like on their own, will make them feel excited to be pleasing their master. And also the opposite happens, as a master you are somehow pleasing your submissive and that provides pleasure. To practice BDSM session it is necessary that each one knows their limits and rules are defined to guarantee safe and pleasant relationships. Safe, sensible and consensual Everything you do must be done safely, sensibly and by consensus (SSC). Any practice or action during the experience must be accepted by both parties. Safety word Before starting any session, a security word is established that both parties will know and that when it is pronounced it means that the person does not want to continue with the practice that is being carried out. What you want to do and what you don't Surely although you have never practiced it before, you have a slight idea of what catches your attention the most and what you don't want to do. Be clear and as far as possible, know what your partner wants or does not do. Remember that you set your limits, never accept something that you dislike or that causes you extreme pain. |
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